Attracting girls in Thailand? For some of you that have visited Thailand, this probably seems ridicules, spending the time to attract a girl when you can find one that will sleep with you for money? That makes no sense.

Maybe some of these critics are right, but I respectfully disagree with them. There are many reasons why you might want to spend the time to attract these girls instead of just paying then having sex with them right away.

1- You want more than a quick lay
2- You do not want to pay full price
3- You are looking for a girlfriend or a potential wife
4- You like talking and meeting new people

Attracting girls is far different from meeting girls; this can be a time consuming process and taking the approach one-step at a time vital. Meeting the girl ends when you break that first barrier of conversation. Now is the time where you find out about her and
convey your personality.

When attracting Thai girls, you will find that each type of girl will respond to something different. However, there are some basic similarities with all Thai girls.

1- They Want to Have Fun

In Thailand, you will come across this with every girl. They want to have fun. This country has a name, “Land of Smiles” for a reason.
If you are spending time with them during the day, do a fun activity, which you enjoy. If you like speed, rent a jet ski. If you like to shop, go visit one of the outdoor malls and just talk get to know each other.

During the evening time, girls like to drink and go dancing. Hate dancing, not a problem. When going to a club or a bar with a dance floor, you will find most girls will dance to the music without their guys. While most guys tend to dance to attract women, most
women like to dance because they simply like to dance.

2- They do not want a Player

Meaning, if a girl is dating you, she wants to feel that you are only dating her. Even if you both know that you are seeing more than one girl, act as if she is the only one when spending time with her. Do not even try looking at other women as they walk by, no
matter how beautiful they are. (Mentally mark the time and place in your head and you might be able to find that girl again

3- Don’t Wave Your Money Around

People travel to Thailand due to how far their money goes and how cheap everything seems. There is a good chance that you will make more in one year than the girl will make in 10 – 20 years working.

It is because of this some girls will be attracted to you. However, do not brag or talk about money too much. It will make you seem like a cocky tourist and will turn off some types of women.

4- When Meeting Her, Talk First

In Thailand, it is very easy to meet and attract women. However, if you do not start the conversation, you may miss an amazing opportunity.

During the day, simply smile and say “hello” in a friendly tone or give them a wink and a great smile. This is the best way to start a conversation and that one little word has lead to some incredible women.

These are just a few of the basic tips I have for you. You will find in Thailand that it is very easy to meet women. Simply saying hello, setting up a first date, and being yourself are all you really need to do.

When attracting a girl in Thailand, you should be aware of the three venues you can use to create an attraction between you and her:

1- Daytime
2- Nighttime
3- Online

Daytime

These ideas are if you meet a girl in the daytime or set up a date for the daytime. For the daytime dates in Pattaya, try something fun, interesting or plan an activity. For example, if I need to do a little shopping or looking for a new product to sell online, I will ask a girl
if she wants to meet up for lunch and do a little shopping.

A few ideas:
· The Beach
· Mall
· Movie
· Paintball
· Bungee Jumping
· Jet Skis
· Go Carting
· Shooting Range

· Any so many more

Night Time Date

If you are a night owl, you may prefer another kind of attraction. Personally, I have had a lot of my success using this avenue because Pattaya has so much to offer with its unique nightlife.

One or two drinks can loosen you up and get you in a talkative mood, use this to your advantage. Having a first or second date over drinks is a great way to meet your next girl and find out if you like her. If things are going well, try taking her dancing or go to a popular nightclub.

A few ideas:

· Hotel restaurants and bars
· Bars with live music
· Standard bar
· Clubs or Discos

One idea is to set up a first date during the day at Starbucks for a quick meet and greet then if things go well, set up an evening date. Evening dates can be a lot of fun if you are with the right person because there is so much to see and do in Pattaya. However, if you
are with the wrong person who bores you and cannot communicate with you, then it will be as much fun as going to the dentist.

Online

My last Thai girlfriend I meet online and it was not easy. It took over a week of MSN and video chat to set up the first date. Sometimes it may be while, however she is a woman of quality and time was needed to create enough attraction and comfort. It was
time well spent.

More and more girls are moving to the internet to meet people. Do not underestimate how powerful it can be to talk to the same girl everyday for a week on MSN. She will start to get used to talking with you and feel comfortable with you. Then when the
feeling is right, go ahead and set up a quick daytime date for coffee or lunch.

As mentioned in the previous chapters, using webcam via MSN or video chat via Skype is a powerful tool to build attraction with one another. Then you will feel more comfortable when meeting someone. If you spend enough time with the girl on webcam
and you know you like her, go ahead and set up the evening date first.

Continuation Date

A continuation date is when you set up a date for one activity then if it is going well, move the date to a different venue and continue it. For example, start with a lunch, and then if you are enjoying her company, take her to a movie. Then get a drink with her.

Just move the date from different locations. This will build comfort with the girl and you will be able to see what she is like doing a variety of things. By doing this, you can have the experience of five dates in one day. You can find out if you like her or not very quickly this way. If things do not work out, not too much time was wasted. In addition, by not committing your whole day to the date, you can bail whenever things get boring.

Warning, if this is your plan, just make sure she is not under any time constraints. Meaning, if she is meeting you for a lunch break from work, this will probably not work. Make sure you are meeting up on her day off and that she does not have anything too
pressing to do later that day.

In business school students are taught to leverage their strengths. If you work well in groups, be apart of a small team. If you are great with numbers, focus on accounting. Meeting and attracting women in your country or in Thailand is no different from this
aspect. You have strengths, show these or convey them to the opposite sex. What makes Thailand such a great place for meeting women is the moment you step off the plane, you are special. They like that you are not Thai. Use this to your advantage when meeting and attracting your next Thai girl.