Pattaya has something for everyone. It is because of this, girls specialize in a few
different fields and work in different environments. Some of these women will expect
money for sex, while others are looking for an honest relationship.
However, for you to meet and understand these women, it is very helpful if you
understand a few different concepts and terminology of Pattaya conversations. If you are
familiar with Thailand, you can skip this chapter. However, if you are new to “Pattaya
Girl Talk”, this is a necessary to read. Most of these definitions will only apply to girls
involved with the sex industry, but when traveling to Pattaya you will find the below
definitions very helpful. So let us get started:
Bar Girl:
These girls work for a bar. Their job is to attract customers to the bar, entertain the
customer and get them to buy drinks. These girls will grab your attention while you walk
by and will ask you anything to get you engaged. The most common opening phrases
are:
“Hello my friend, where you come from?”
“Sexy man, I like you!”
When they pull you into the bar, they will entertain you and they are very good at their
job. They will play pool, darts, or games like connect four.
These girls receive their pay three ways:
1- They get a commission on each drink you buy from them. If you buy them a drink for
200 baht, they will get about 30 baht in commission.
2- If you want to leave the bar with them, you will have to pay their bar fine (The rights
to have them leave work) which will be between 300 – 1000 baht. The girls will get a
small portion of the bar fine, which will be around 100 baht.
3- Any sexual favors in exchange for money will be all theirs.
These girls are not required to go with a man if they do not want to.
Standard Prices for Bar Girls:
Bar girl prices, vary a lot. Typically the bar fine will be around 300 baht and the girl will
charge anywhere from 1000 – 5000 baht for time away from the bar (sex). This will also
depend on if you take them for “short time” or “long time” (Scroll down for a
description).
Go-go Dancers:
These girls are the dancers in the bars and clubs; compare these to strip clubs in any
western world. The girls will be dancing in shifts of 3 – 5 songs then take a break for 3 -
5 songs.
When they are on break, they will sit next to you and attempt to get a drink bought for
them.
These girls receive payment three ways:
1- Each drink bought for them, they will get a small commission. This is the same as bar
girls.
2- They will get a portion of their bar fine if you want to take them out from the bar for
the night. Their bar fines are typically more than the bar girls and are around 700 – 1000
baht.
3- Any agreement of sexual favors in exchange for money will be all theirs.
These girls are not required to go with a man if they do not want to.
Standard Prices for Go-Go:
Go-Go dancers charge a standard price for sex. You have the option of a “short time”
which will cost about 2000 baht for sex and 1000 baht for the bar fine.
For “long time” you will be looking at about 3000 – 4000 baht for sex where you will
have them all night and pay 1000 baht for their bar fine.
Massage Girls:
These are the girls, which stand or sit outside of their massage parlors and ask you if you
want a massage. These girls are trained in the Thai massage and depending on where you
go, may or may not try to up sale you on a happy ending.
How these girls are paid:
* These girls receive a monthly wage
* They charge for any “extra” up sell you are wanting. This could be a successfulconclusion: hand job, blowjob, or sex.
These girls have no choice on who they massage however, they have the choice on what
and if extra features, you may want. If you do not want to worry about the “extras”,
simply go to a more upscale place or get a massage in a public area. Sometimes if I want
a nice massage with no “extras”, I simply go to the beach a get a nice massage while the
sun is setting. Very relaxing.
Body Massage Girls:
If you have never had one of these, this will be the greatest experience of your
life….guaranteed! More information will be the following chapters.
How these girls are paid:
The girls are paid about 500 – 700 per “massage” which will last anywhere from 60 – 90
minutes.
These girls have no choice on whom they take and what extra features you may want.
Freelance Girls:
Freelance girls are simply that, freelance girls who have sex for extra money. They are
independent workers who normally are in nightclubs and bars.
They are not associated with any clubs or bars and this can be their primary source of
income or a secondary source. Many of these girls are simply looking for second source
of income because their job at the restaurant, hotel, or shopping mall may not be paying
the bills.
How these girls are paid:
You negotiate a price when meeting them.
These girls have the choice on whom they go with and whom they do not.
Normal Girls:
These girls do not have sex for money and have their own jobs where they make their
own money. You will find these girls inside shopping malls, restaurants, hotels, etc…
High Society Girls:
Good luck with these girls. These girls are extremely educated, comes from successful
families and stay away from dating tourist. (They may even be of the royalty line)
They tend to be the palest of Thai girls because being white is a showing of class in the
Thai culture. Look at all the Thai actors and models, you will find them to have very
white skin.
These girls are so difficult to meet and date because if they are with a white man, it is a
sign of low social status to themselves and their families.
A true example:
Once upon a time ago, a Thailand princess went overseas to study at a university. After
studying there, she fell in love with a white man and wanted to marry him.
The king and his family did not stop her from marrying the foreigner; however, they did
strip her of her rights of being a princess. The rights of her children and children to
come will not be any part of the royal line.
It is highly frowned upon for this type of woman, to appear with a foreigner. The good
news is you will most likely not run into this much without knowing where to look. Most
of these types of women will be around the Bangkok area.
Bar Fine
A bar fine is what you have to pay the girl to leave work early. These girls are under
contact to work till closing time. However, if you do find a girl you like, you have the
option of taking her away from the bar for the evening by paying this fine. Most bar
fines will range from 300 – 1000 baht.
Short Time
Short Time is a saying for, “hit it and quit it”. If you take a girl “short time”, that means
you will take here for sex in the room either upstairs or to your place. Then when you are
done, she returns to work.
Long Time
Long Time means when you take the girl from her work and she does not have to return
until the next working day.
Buying Out from Bar
If you meet a girl from a bar or Go-go club and want her to stay with you for extended
period, you will need to “buy her out” from the bar. What this means is the bar has her
under contract to work there. If she meets a man while at work, she cannot live with that
man or stay with him for an extended amount of time unless he pays her bar fine every
day.
Instead of paying the bar fine everyday, which will add up, you have the option to buy
her contact out from the bar where she will not be required to return to work and you will
not have to pay for any more bar fine. The cost of this can vary between 10,000 – 30,000
baht depending on the girl and the bar.
Wow, those are many of the basics. No let us get to the fun part, meeting the girls,
attracting the girls, and managing your Thai relationships. And yes, these are three very
different things.
