In any country, you have the option of online dating. If you have tried to meet a woman via the internet, you know how frustrating and difficult this can be where you just waste your time and money. Dating in Thailand can be the same if you do not have an effective approach. You can be like every other person out there and get minimal to no results, or you can read this section and find the bulletproof system to meeting Thai girls online.

Personally, I love the idea of meeting girls online. This gives you an entirely different avenue to meeting someone new without leaving your house. Less is more. Do less and get more is a great philosophy to live you dating life by. Before you enter the online dating world, you must remember one thing:

Online dating is a numbers game!

Meaning, even with the greatest profile, the most handsome photo, and an effective first email, you will still only get a response from a small percentage of the women you contact.

A real example of this:

When I first started online dating in Thailand, I joined two main websites. One was free; the other was a paid one. After a couple of weeks of trial and error, I had a great profile with a few great opening emails.

A week later, I had five dates that week.

I would usually do a daytime meet up at Starbucks for the first date. This is a great choice because with online dating, there are quite a few risks involved (explained below). A daytime date is best because if you do not like her or if she has an unexpected surprise,
you can leave in a respectful manner after 20 minutes. Anyway, during all these dates I would out of curiosity ask, “how many men do you have contact you a week?” I would get the response of them not knowing, but it was a lot. Two weeks down the road, one of the girls ended up as my next girlfriend. I would ask her the same question, and she said about a thousand men a week. I thought she was joking, a thousand new men contacting a girl in a week. That number was hard to wrap my mind around.

She opened up her laptop and logged into her second email account (created for online dating), low and behold, she was getting over 200 new emails a day. She was having over 1,400 new men contact her every week. Still so surprised, I asked her why she responded to mine. She said she liked my first email (I will share this email with you and others later in this chapter).
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Two Major Risks of Online Dating:

1- The profile photo does not represent the girl correctly:
This is something you will find anywhere in the world. Obviously, most people will put
the best photo of them on their profile. However, some push this to such extremes where
the photo will be so far from what they really look like. Their smile my not show the
crusted teeth, the angle may not show her real weight, or a common trick is to post a
photo taken years ago.

This risk sucks, but can be overcome quite easily…

Get ready for this, because this is the first time I have used this technique, it worked like a charm: MSN Webcam Chat.
Not only will you be able to see what she actually looks like, but also this is the best way to build comfort with the girl. By doing a video cam chat, you can show more of yourself and see more of her. You will quickly move from one of the thousands of men which
contacted her, to being that men she has seen and talked to.

In addition, you can have some fun with this. MSN has some great games you two can play. Have you ever tried online bowling where the loser takes off an article of clothing? You have to try this, it’s a blast! By a simple webcam chat, you can increase your success in online dating ten folds.

2- She is a Lady Boy

Okay, this sucks. Thankfully, I have never had a daytime date with a lady boy. However, this has been know to happen. Just by browsing on the dating websites, you will find out that at least 10 percent of the girls are actual lady boys. In places like
Bangkok and Pattaya, the lady boys can look very good. Sometimes even locals cannot tell…

When I started online dating, it was just about the same time a good friend of mine started doing the same. Dom has been living in Thailand for over ten years now and even speaks fluent Thai. Therefore, when it comes to dating, he knows his shit.

In his first week of online dating, he had a date every day of the week. We would also share how our dates went, what we did to set it up, and give each other some advice. On his second date, I would ask him how it went. He looked at me and said, “no good”.
I knew what he meant right away. Sometimes the girl may be very sexy and sound good, however, if you meet them during the day and you still have a small doubt in your mind that she might be a lady boy, move on to the next woman. It is not worth the risk and
some of these lady boys have all the right operations with the fake ID to prove it. He skipped a vital step, he did not do a webcam chat or a phone call to hear her voice first.

This sucks, but is a risk with meeting girls in Thailand. As I said, this has never happened to me, or any of my other friends. But it does happen and you should be aware of the risks.

Want to learn how to eliminate all the risks of dating a lady boy. Later in this book, we have a chapter, which tells you the risks of dating in Thailand with some advice to help you out.

Type of girls you can meet online

One reason I love online dating is the variety of girls you can meet. Online you will find females ranging from bar girls to very successful women. By reading their profile, you can get a good idea how to classify the girl into one of the three categories:

1- Looking for a new customers
2- Looking for a boyfriend
3- Looking for a husband

Look at the age group of their preferred mate. If she is 22 years old and looking for a man between the ages of 40 – 60, you will be able to tell which of the three she is. Did she actually take the time to write her profile and add real photos of her? You might
have a number two on your hands. Does she have a photo wearing a bikini or sexy underwear? Good chance she is a
number one.

When you read our proven techniques for online dating, you will find that these questions do not matter until you have already received a response. By falling in love with her photo and profile before a response is a good way to set up yourself for disappointment.

Best Pattaya Dating Websites

There are two websites I recommend. Both of the sites, I have had great success:

1- www.ThaiLoveLinks.com

This has been by far my most successful paid website. It will cost you about 30usd a month, but will be well worth the money. This is the most popular dating website in Thailand.
Pros:
- It is a paid website
What? How can paying to be a member be a good thing? Well, it’s more of a half paid
site. You can sign up for free and contact paying members free of charge. However, if
you want to contact other free members, you will need to upgrade to a paid account.
Girls that pay to become member are girls who want to meet a man. They are not just
browsing to see what the man looks like; they paid 30usd to meet you. Start with the
members who have paid, this is where you will get the highest percentage of women who
respond to you.
- Not many are lady boys
This website does not seem to have that many lady boys. In addition, those which are
lady boys will state that they are.
- Sign up for Free
You can sign up for free and contact paid members
- Highest closing ratio
This website has proven to be very successful for me and nearly all my other friends who
try online dating in Thailand.
Cons:
- It is a paid website
There are pros and cons at the same time. If you want full access, you will have to pay.

2- www.DateinAsia.com

Dates in Asia is the best free dating website in Thailand. No payment is required at any point and you have full access the moment you join.
Pros:
- Free
- Easy to message and show interest
-Very easy to browse, show interest, and message the girls.
Cons:
- Lady Boys
You will find many lady boys on this website. However, most of the lady boys will say in their profile that they are a woman boy.
- Lots of Browser

Since this website is free, there are many girls, which just join this website to browse with very little intention of meeting a man. It just becomes a fun past time for them. Above are the two best online dating websites in Thailand. One is a free website, the
other is paid. You get the best of both worlds.

P.S. Craigslist is only good for prostitutes.